Author: Elena Overfield
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Being Mean Must Be Exhausting: The Art of Not Taking It Personally
Have you ever found yourself overthinking someone’s sudden change in behaviour towards you? Maybe they’ve become cold, distant, or outright rude, and you’re left wondering what you did wrong. In this post, we’re exploring why other people’s negativity often says more about them than it does about you, the difference between understanding someone’s pain and…
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The Fox and the Things We Never Say
The fox is one of the quietest characters in The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse, yet he may have the most to teach us. In this reflective essay, I explore how silence can be a sign of hurt, healing, resilience, and unspoken courage. Through the fox’s journey, we’re reminded that not everyone…
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The Characters We All Carry Within Us
The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse by Charlie Mackesy is far more than a beautifully illustrated book. It’s a profound exploration of friendship, self-worth, vulnerability, and what it means to be human. In this reflective review, I explore the deeper meaning behind each character and the life lessons they represent, from the…
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Setbacks, Failures and Injuries
I was supposed to be running the Edinburgh Half Marathon in a few weeks. Instead, I’m dealing with a meniscus tear, months of ignored pain, and the emotional reality of stepping back from something I worked so hard for. This is about injuries, setbacks, recovery, and learning when to finally stop pushing through.
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Playing For a Men’s Hockey Team As The Only Girl
I never expected to find myself playing in a men’s hockey team—but here I am. This post shares what that’s actually like, from the rule changes that made it possible to the reality of stepping into a completely new environment, navigating confidence, pressure, and everything that comes with it.
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My Hockey Journey: From Hating It to Finding My Way Back 🤍
From hating hockey at 8 to playing five times a week, losing it to an eating disorder, and finding my way back years later—this is my full hockey journey. How it shaped me, challenged me, and why I’ve finally started sharing this side of my life online after one unexpected viral moment.
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Hey… I Rebranded!
I’ve rebranded my blog from Pepetoe to elenaoverfield.com, and it feels like stepping into something more honest, more personal, and more aligned. This post is a little re-introduction: why I made the change, what it means, and what you can expect from this next chapter of my content and growth.
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Healing as a Woman: The Journey Back to Yourself
Healing as a woman often means unlearning comparison, rebuilding compassion for yourself, and discovering strength through the experiences that once felt impossible to survive.
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